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Out of all cheating men 88% said that their mistress was not necessarily better looking or in better shape than their spouse. The real reason they cheated was the other woman made them feel validated and important. More often than not men cheat on wives because of their ego.
Men have large egos and like to think of themselves as an alpha male to their spouse. Yet when they go home their spouse treats them like a man, but just a man, nothing special. This is a downfall for any man in a relationship.
In most cases the cheating husband had affairs with co workers. Most people think that this is strictly a convenience thing, or some male fantasy, but that could not be farther from the truth.
A woman flirting with a man at work makes him feel like he is really attractive, virile and desirable. It gives his ego that boost that he used to get from his wife. He will be walking on cloud nine for the rest of his day until he goes home.
He comes home expecting his wife to give him the same kind of attention. The problem is his wife is tired from working herself and maybe taking care of the children as well. She shows him very little attention in her exhausted stupor and this does not sit well with him.
In the beginning this may be nothing to worry about, but as time goes on the grass begins to look greener on the other side. Male egos are very fragile and need to be stroked every now and again, particularly by their wife or significant other. If you are not there to do it he may find some one else who can.
This is certainly no excuse for men cheating on wives, but it is one of the leading causes. To help prevent this from happening just make sure that you regularly make your man feel that you appreciate his contributions. You may not realize it, but he craves your attention more than anyone else. If he feels invalidated by you it could set up a downward spiral in the relationship.
A playful little rub on the back for a job well done is a simple action that just makes men feel great, for a while anyway. Come up with creative ways to show him how you feel.
Once a man has had his ego stroked properly you will notice he is more responsive than you would hope for. You compliment him for how great his body looks and the next thing you know he is whistling while painting the garage.
Why is he painting the garage? Aside from the fact that it may have needed it, this would be a great opportunity to earn more compliments. A man with a healthy ego is far more productive than a man who is depressed, and for good reason.
Make your man feel that he is important to you. Whether you know it or not he is, or was, constantly trying to impress you! He wants your attention so give it to him. Men cheat on wives primarily because of ego. You do not have to bend over backwards, just make him feel like hes the only man for you rather than just saying it.
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Source by James Dillon
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